Infertility can be brutal on any relationship, particularly in traditional societies. It has been known as one of the major factors to have threatened marriages. This cause of anger, frustration and the despair from failing to conceive a child, has ruined so many lives. And what makes it even more disruptive, are the many myths about infertility that run in the corridors of society.
Despair While Waiting For Signs Of Pregnancy
Research says that approximately 10%-12% couples have trouble conceiving. A trouble that leads to myriad of treatments and seeking support from various people in the community or on online forums.
- Jealousy rising from seeing other mothers with their children
- Mental stress due to multiple counselling sessions across medical disciplines
- Time consuming and distracting medical appointments taking a toll
- Financial stress from trying various treatments and vitamins
- Despair when various diets do not result into pregnancy
- Loosing good career opportunities in pursuit of pregnancy
- Stressed partners when one of them refuses to get infertility tests done
- Being on the other side of 50 adding to the depressive thoughts
- Agony of facing another “Father’s Day” or “Mother’s Day” at work
- The everyday guilt and anger that’s affecting your marriage and relationship
3 Tips To Live Through Waiting Time
One of the major reasons so many couples undergo such situations is the cost of infertility treatments. Like there was this couple who had come to the AKPI IVF Clinic in Nashik as their last attempt, and after having spent nearly INR 150,000 on acupuncture and vitamins and other treatments. So apart from cost considerations that keep couples waiting, here are a few suggestions on how to remain upbeat during the waiting time:
- Don’t over-analyze your waiting period. Instead, focus on your relationships, your work and keep your body HEALTHY.
- Do not get carried away by misleading advise on the internet. It is advisable to consult an infertility specialist to address your concerns and doubts.
- Keeping your daily routine active is one positive way to keep away the waiting blues. Ask your partner to take a long walk in the nearby parks or take your car for an early morning drive into the wilderness.
While it’s impossible to completely ignore your wait for symptoms of pregnancy, it is important to distract your mind intermittently.